Building a harmonious household requires effort of married couples, husbands and wives. Domestic conflict can occur in any couple, including adultery or polygamy. However, it does not mean this issue cannot be anticipated. The main principle is well acquainted with the couple before marriage. Make an agreement for the faithful to each other and not hurt each other in a covenant marriage can also be an option in anticipation of infidelity also polygamy.
Neng Dara Affiah, Commissioner National Commission for Women, explained that before entering the marriage commitment, you should first recognize and know all too well who the prospective husband or wife, knowing the character of the couple until the outlook on life. Couples in depth personal knowledge necessary to anticipate the things that are not desired after marriage. Prenuptial agreement, which was created by women, contains what is not desired by the candidate’s wife. Such agreement contains a wife does not want polygamy; wives are given the flexibility to work outside the home for economic access, and go to college anymore. What are the desired women as wives in the agreement must be written, and delivered at the ceremony that was witnessed by many people.
Prenuptial agreement is meant in the context of protecting women from domestic problems, including domestic violence (with the condition of women often become victims of violence).
Husein Muhammad from Commissioner National Commission for Women, adding, as much as 95 percent of the violence occurred in the home and the culprit was the husband. Violence takes many forms of physical, psychological, and economic neglect and sexual abuse. “Polygamy is a real form of authority (patriarchal ideology) as well as male violence over women or husband or wife,” he added.
Hussein explained ideology and culture of patriarchy gives men the right to define, decide, and master of all space, both domestic and public. Meanwhile, women are defined, regulated, and controlled




